Dating with Beijing Girl for foreigners

Beijing is the capital city of China, a large, social city but now is full of modern culture and style. A lot of foreigners and international visit Beijing daily, especially visiting Great wall, Tian An Men, The Forbidden City, and The Temple of Heaven.

But for foreigners who want to know more about Beijing people especially local girls, there are some difficulties including how to talk and the culture of chinese girl.

As foreigners in Beijing, it is quite easy for us to meet and have relationships with girls. Eventually, most of these relationships will turn sexual. So on average, how many dates does it take before your girl is willing to take the 'leap of faith' into bed with you?

Of course, much of this depends on your looks, age, nationality, and financial stability. Or in other words, what girls here refer to as your 'tiao jian'(条件).

Dating with Beijing Girl Tips and Tricks

Dating Girls Beijing Tips 1 - Ask yourself what kind of man your date (or victim) wants to be with on her first date.

Dating Girls Beijing Tips 2 - Simply, be that Man that she wants!

Let me give some examples to illustrate my point.

For example, just say that this Chinese date of yours likes a man that is educated and is relatively wealthy. What should you do?

Simply, on your date night, wear a nice business suit and make sure your hair is decent and slick. She will be proud to walk with a “successful man” like you. Anyway, it doesn’t cost much to have a nice suit tailor-made in Beijing.

For most Chinese girls, it will also be best to take her out to a Western restaurant for a candle-light dinner. I don’t know why but it seems to work. I guess most Chinese girls tend to watch Hollywood movies, where candle-light dinner is THE thing for a romantic night out. This is especially so when you are a Caucasian.

What if your date is a fun-loving, sexy and love Rock Music (reminds me of my wife)? Well, try to wear something cool and bright. These girls like you to be one-of-a-kind. Cool sells!

If that’s the case, boring clothes an hairstyles will only attract boring girls. So, what do you want?

For my first real date with my then-girlfriend-now-wife, I wore a pair of Levi’s jeans, a nice leather jacket over a T-shirt with the rock band, Led Zeppelin on it.

It did the trick!

At the end of our date, I took off my T-shirt in front of her and pass it to her as a present. She is a real fan of Led Zeppelin! And I wanted to show her my muscular pecs and abs too.

She was so shy but I knew she thought it was so COOL! Who wouldn’t?

Note: This is not for every guy out there unless you had my previously well-toned body. I would not do it now, especially with my enlarging love handles.

Another important thing – Chinese girls are very observant and would notice small things. So, please snip your nostril hairs and shave before a date. Most Chinese girls like clean-shaven men compared to Indian girls who love their men with moustaches. I guess it’s a cultural thing.

Chinese girls like men who look after themselves. If you look like a poor vagrant on the first date, it will probably be your last too.

In China, “face” value is very important. If you can enhance your date’s status by being with you, you are seen as a good catch.

Some general “Dating Girls Beijing Tips” for first date include:

- Don't put too much cologne unless you smell like a skunk!

- Always take a shower before going on a date.

- Don't have bad breath. Buy some chewing gum and put them in your pocket. You’ll never know when you need them. Especially when kissing on your first date.

WARNING: Do not kiss on your first date with a Chinese girl!

Who is Jill Gladys boyfriend and dating with

Jill Gladys is a cute actress, new actress from Indonesia. She is a Indonesia chinese girl, and became famous after starred several Indonesia Films such as Setannya Kok Beneran, Kawin Laris and Setan Beneran, also at tayangan Sitkom Food Court SCTV. Her face is so cute and oriental, just a mix face from Crystal Liu and Sandra Dewi.

Jill Gladys born at 7 October 1986 rumoured to be married before. She now is a widow, with one son named Damien as a result for their MBA (seks bebas) at the age 20. Some news article said that Jill was used to be a call girl or "cewek bispak", but there are no other strong evidences to prove her wild things.

However, she still pretty and beautiful today. Many Indonesia actors are gossiped to be her boyfriend such as Indonesia Idol Delon and ex boyfriend of Poppy Bunga named Mandala. Delon, who just broken up before with other Chinese Indonesia Actress "Sandra Dewi" said his relationship with Jill Gladys only just friend.

Who want to date with Jill Gladys ? Must compete with Delon of course. But who knows even a ordinary man now can date with Celebrities.

Photos of Jill Gladys cute actress :

Dating with Lin Chiling or Taiwan Artist

Dating with a girl is not such a thing to be proud of. But how about dating with celebrities ? Have you ever thought of dating with your favourite artist ?

Today even a ordinary man can date with Lin Chiling, a taiwan super model and the Taiwan FHM's sexiest girl this year. Yes, dating with artist become a trend nowadays in Taiwan. Besides Lin Chiling, other big star such as Barbie Hsu and Jolin Tsai also in the list to be dated for.

Here is the news about dating with Lin Chiling. Hope I can provide the money.

A Taiwanese director recently exposed the amounts paid to have Taiwanese female celebrities to accompany businessmen for dinner parties.

34-year-old Taiwanese top model Lin Chi-ling made her name with movie debut Red Cliff and was placed top of the price list. Her invincible charm also placed her on the Top 10 chart for “Hottest Female Celebrity Legs” and number one on “FHM’s 2009 Top 100 Sexiest Ladies”, and making her the female celebrity most demanded for in the Greater China region.

Barbie Hsu and Jolin Tsai, each receiving S$200,000 per appointment, were second and third on the list.

Annie Yi and Alyssa Chia, whose marriages failed recently, also suffered a drop in their values and were ranked number 10 at a mere S$40,000 each.

Lin Chiling Sexy Photos :

Younger Foreign Men Have Difficulty Dating Chinese Girls

Do Younger Foreign Men Have Difficulty Dating Chinese Girls?

China is a country which has a rapid major economic growth. A lot of foreign peoples come to china to work every year. Although English Language is not a major language in that country, but recently a lot of English Teacher come to China. English Teacher from foreign country like western country, still got problems to talk and have a relationship with chinese people especially the chinese girls. Many of thems have difficulty while talking with chinese girl.

Here is one letter posted by foreing ESL Teacher in China who want to date with a local chinese girl. He found difficulty in finding college graduates girl, however the most chiense girls do not beleive in monogamous serial dating.

This is the letter and the answer to the question about problems in relationship between foreing men and chinese girls. Completely taken from the site : http://middlekingdomlife.com/wp/ask-dr-greg/do-younger-foreign-men-have-difficulty-dating-chinese-girls/

Original Question

Dear Dr. Greg

It seems many of the ESL teachers in China are a bit, not sure how to say this, older. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but one of the draws of China seems to be Chinese girls are far more open to dating older, western men than girls are in Korea, where I am currently working.

My question is what if you aren't older? I'll be working in China at the age of 24. I may look 30 but word spreads soon enough. In Korea men my age are given a certain amount of slack, they are expected to be drinking and chasing women (and seeing hookers) on a regular basis. In China, will I be held to a higher standard as a foreigner, or will I be able to "act my age?"

In addition, would it be considered wrong for a man of 24 to have a girlfriend older than him? In Korea this is very rare.

Thank you

Answer

Traditional Chinese girls and their families believe that a future husband should be older, smarter, taller, and better educated than his wife. The acceptable age difference is, generally speaking, two to four years older. As is true throughout Asia, it would be very unusual for a Chinese girl to feel comfortable dating and marrying a younger man. It happens, especially if the age difference is not greater than a year or two, but it is rare.

Chinese girls who deliberately seek much older men generally do so to compensate themselves for having had ambivalent or terribly conflictual, often aggressive, relationships with their fathers. Although this applies to many Chinese girls, perhaps most, it doesn't apply to all. In addition, the preference for older men is typically overrepresented by girls raised by poor families in the countryside and, perhaps, girls who have a history of being cheated on by younger men. The hope is that by choosing a much older man, he is less likely to grow bored with her and chase younger women as time goes by.

As a rule, highly Westernized girls born and raised in international cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, and, to a lesser extent, Guangzhou—especially if their relationships with their fathers were relatively healthy—will not prefer much older men.

At your age of 24, you shouldn't have any difficulty finding recent college graduates, 22- and 23-years of age, who feel it is time to start looking for a boyfriend (read husband). The problem you might run into in second and third tier cities is that most Chinese girls do not believe in monogamous serial dating. That is, most are definitely not looking for just "friends with benefits" or casual sex (see unit on Dating Etiquette, Sex, and Relationships in Guide). Having just written that, and especially if you will be teaching in an international city, you will find many girls who are just interested in dating in the Western sense of that word.

If I were 24 years again and interested in just dating Chinese girls and "acting my age," I'd be limiting my job search to Beijing and Shanghai only--as a way to maximize my chances of finding those type of opportunities.

Best of luck to you.

Shanghai Beautiful girl seeking for a boyfriend

A member of Shanghai's Liba BBS forum called "Queenie_Melody" is looking form a man to become her boyfriend.

This girl is seeking for a rich guy, has a big house, and a car. Who want to be her boyfriend ?

As taken from other blogs, here is the quote of Queenie_Melody :

Born 1985 on New Year’s Day~166cm, 44kg, body is considered pretty good~, education: vocational college.
Right now at a video game company in administration , monthly salary about 4-5k RMB.
I like to stay at home, usually I do not go out at night, so guys who like bars or nightlife can forget it. (I have a curfew)

I am a little girl hoping to find a guy who will take care of me.
Age should be born between 1977-1983 except for 1979. I am afraid of those 6 years apart from me.
Height should be within 175-185cm~to tall I cannot handle, wearing high heels everyday is very tiring, and I do not want the very skinny type.
I like guys with double-eyelids haha. I want the type of guy with big eyes~
I like to dye my hair but I do not like my boyfriend to dye his hair~
I want to find a Shanghainese guy who has a big house (without mortgage), I like to have a pet dog~ best if you have a car…I am afraid of walking and I always take a taxi when I go out (I admit I am wasteful T.T Go ahead and scold me).
Hope the guy’s salary is at least 2x mine…

PS: Sometimes I am very childish, guys who cannot deal with this should not apply.
I like doggies, guys who cannot deal with pets should not apply.
Guys with bad or irritable temperaments should not apply.
Most most important is~players not allowed!!!
If there is anything to add, I will edit after I think of them…

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Chinese modeling agency or maybe modeling photography agency offer their services usually through the local Yellow Pages (they are not very organized).

If you have some special requirements on Model Girls have a look in one of the nightclubs.

In every bigger hotel there is a nightclub, a bar, a lounge etc. and you can be sure you will find some nice Chinese girls if you like dating somehow. Interestingly some of them speak even English, to find someone who speaks English in China is quite a difficult task.

Be aware that the Chinese girls are very materialistic minded, you know Madonna and her hit its here in en nature.

Chinese beauties are usual somehow positive minded in terms to have a little talk together and more.

If someone comes to China lets say Shanghai or any other big city, one can find plenty of sexy Chinese beauties in every upscale Hotel, but be aware those Chinese sexy girls are there for business. One will find the Chinese sexy girls much tougher that sets say girls in Thailand, its a completely different mentality. Find some beautiful Chinese girl and young Chinese girl plus cute Chinese girls.

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How to chase chinese girl

Chinese people is very friendly. And most of Chinese girls like to talk with a foreigner if you can speak Chinese. If you said you can teach she English or other language. She will happy to be your friend. And than you can go for a travel with she. Take more care to she. Soon she will feel in love with you. So, if you want to chase a beautiful Chinese girl. Firstly,learn a littly Chinese. Start at “你好！”“你真美。”

As we know that china is a very traditional country and chinese girl are very conventional, so talking about something dare is not polite and also will scare girls away. In chinese girls mind most of foreign men are lesure about sex. I dont know whether it is right or not. but online so many white guys do scared me a lot.

Some Chinese girls are so uptight. That if you ask them out she'll probably won't even say a word and ignore you. And turn their head and their eyes looking on the side giving a the face like you ain't worth anything. But if you can chase her friend and actually get her. The first girl who was so uptight would start feeling regret like she lost her chance.

I don't like uptight conevtional girls anyway. Some of them have bad temper and get frsutrated all the time. You may think they are spoiled but its just the way that some Chinese girls are. They can go chew vinegar 吃醋 on a daily basis!

Better stick to more open friendly Chinese girls, sadly they are mostly overseas Chinese girls, but lucky some local ones are just as friendly. But sometimes you don't want them to be too friendly. Some of them start singing their Chinese oprah and OMG it can break your ears!

Articles are taken from : chinese-tools.com

Be on Time for your Chinese girlfriend

Chinese girl measure the boy discipline from the dating, if the boys come on time or late. Chinese girl like on time boy, show he is care about the girl by coming on time.

Whatever you do, don’t turn up late. Turning up late will send out all the wrong impressions. At first she may think she's been stood up, but after arriving late her opinion will change to you being unreliable or not caring enough about her to be on time. If you are picking her up from her home then it is advisable to turn up five minutes before you are due. Any earlier and you might catch her adjusting her makeup or still getting ready. Five minutes early is the earliest you should arrive. But never be late.

Why Choose a Chinese Girl

Chinese girl is famous for her oriental beauty and special tradition. Perhaps you are one of the men who have already heard about the beauty of Chinese girls but continue wondering what makes Chinese women that special. Here are some reasons for dating a Chinese Girl that may give the answer to your question:

1. Asian girls are renowned for their beauty.
asians stand out among Asian women in terms of charm and femininity.

2. Chinese women are naturally romantic, loving and caring.
They are not only beautiful women but a delight to be around because of the famous Asian disposition and personality. Many asians have instilled in them since birth a sense of honor called Delikadesa. It is this sense of Delikadesa that gives them such fine admirable qualities you just won't find in ladies of the western world. You will never find a proper Asian lie, cheat, or steal – it will bring shame upon her and her family.

3. Chinese women put family first before money.
To the Asian, family will always remain a great priority. The Asian, whom many would consider as having come from a relatively poor country, will view the close loving bonds of the Asian Family as her wealth. The Asian women are more willing to sacrifice career than a family.

4. asians are religious.
Phillipines is the only christian nation in the far east.

5. Asian women believe in a one-man one-woman relationship
An interesting fact is that there is no "absolute divorce" in Chinas. There is only "relative divorce" in a form of "legal separation” (husband and wife are only separated from bed and board but marriage remains in full force). Marriage in such a country where they simply do not have divorce laws is always considered a life long commitment. asians welcome their responsibilities towards keeping her husband happy and strive to never lose his attention. Luckily for her most Asian Ladies are often petite tender beautiful warm loving creatures you will never tier of giving your affection to.

6. Chinese girls are understanding, patient and supportive.
Even loud verbal arguments or fighting would be to de-face her self and most asians would simply never engage in any such acts. This soft spoken, quiet, understanding nature of the Asian Ladies is a desired trait many of them strive towards.

7. asians are optimistic and have flexible personality.
They have a great sense of humor.

8. Chinese women are excellent home keepers.
Chinese ladies equate domestic responsibility with being a good wife (or potentially a good wife). Chinas practices "patriarchal" form of society and traditionally husbands are providers while wives are meant to stay home to keep the family in order and look after the children.
The Asian Lady's home is a great source of pride for her. For the Asian girl to yell in her home is to de-face her home so you will never find her screaming or breaking dishes.

9. Asian girls are well educated.
The China culture places a huge emphasis on a college education. An environment of importance towards education and pride in accomplishment at school is instilled in the asian's family.

10. Offers very high respect to partners or provider in the family.
Some, actually many who marry these Asian beauties, swear they make the best wives in the world, not only beautiful, but loyal, loving and faithful past death.

11.asian-American marriages are more successful than American-American marriages.
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How to date a chinese girl

How to date a chinese girl

Chinese Girl is not same with other girl arount the world. A high tradition based, make a non-chinese guy find some difficulties to date this chinese girl. However, actually chinese girl still a girl that needs love and romance. Just find out how to melt the girl heart, with some learning from this tips.

Here are some tips to date a chinese girl :

1. These China ladies are as interested in seeing what you look like as you are in seeing what they look like. So always try to send them a recent, clear, close up picture of yourself. And always make sure you show a big smile. A smiling face is important to Chinese Women.

2. Always treat these China women with respect. All of the Chinese ladies on this web site Chinese wives would be very offended and would not respond at all if you mentioned any other rude oriented comments.

3. chinese women as a rule, often look for a husband that is a few years older than themselves(10-20). But you need to use a little common sense. If you are a 60 year old man you will more than likely be wasting your time looking for a 25 year old girl from China.

4. Most of these China ladies realize that you may be communicating with more than one Chinese woman. It is always best to use a certain amount of discretion. Never make them feel as if they are competing with each other over you or you will surely loose all of them.

5. If you see any of these Chinese girls that you are interested in, don't wait too long to communicate with them. The more attractive and educated they are, the sooner they will find someone for marriage.