Beijing is the capital city of China, a large, social city but now is full of modern culture and style. A lot of foreigners and international visit Beijing daily, especially visiting Great wall, Tian An Men, The Forbidden City, and The Temple of Heaven.
But for foreigners who want to know more about
Beijing people especially local girls, there are some difficulties including
how to talk and the culture of chinese girl.
As foreigners in Beijing, it is quite easy for us to meet and
have relationships with girls. Eventually, most of these relationships will turn sexual. So on average, how many dates does it take before your girl is willing to take the 'leap of faith' into bed with you?
Of course, much of this depends on your looks, age, nationality, and financial stability. Or in other words, what girls here refer to as your 'tiao jian'(条件).
Dating with
Beijing Girl Tips and Tricks Dating Girls Beijing Tips 1 - Ask yourself what kind of man your date (or victim) wants to be with on her first date.
Dating Girls Beijing Tips 2 - Simply, be that Man that she wants!
Let me give some examples to illustrate my point.
For example, just say that this Chinese date of yours likes a man that is educated and is relatively wealthy. What should you do?
Simply, on your date night, wear a nice business suit and make sure your hair is decent and slick. She will be proud to walk with a “successful man” like you. Anyway, it doesn’t cost much to have a nice suit tailor-made in Beijing.
For most Chinese girls, it will also be best to take her out to a Western restaurant for a candle-light dinner. I don’t know why but it seems to work. I guess most Chinese girls tend to watch Hollywood movies, where candle-light dinner is THE thing for a romantic night out. This is especially so when you are a Caucasian.
What if your date is a fun-loving, sexy and love Rock Music (reminds me of my wife)? Well, try to wear something cool and bright. These girls like you to be one-of-a-kind. Cool sells!
If that’s the case, boring clothes an hairstyles will only attract boring girls. So, what do you want?
For my first real date with my then-girlfriend-now-wife, I wore a pair of Levi’s jeans, a nice leather jacket over a T-shirt with the rock band, Led Zeppelin on it.
It did the trick!
At the end of our date, I took off my T-shirt in front of her and pass it to her as a present. She is a real fan of Led Zeppelin! And I wanted to show her my muscular pecs and abs too.
She was so shy but I knew she thought it was so COOL! Who wouldn’t?
Note: This is not for every guy out there unless you had my previously well-toned body. I would not do it now, especially with my enlarging love handles.
Another important thing – Chinese girls are very observant and would notice small things. So, please snip your nostril hairs and shave before a date. Most Chinese girls like clean-shaven men compared to Indian girls who love their men with moustaches. I guess it’s a cultural thing.
Chinese girls like men who look after themselves. If you look like a poor vagrant on the first date, it will probably be your last too.
In China, “face” value is very important. If you can enhance your date’s status by being with you, you are seen as a good catch.
Some general “Dating Girls Beijing Tips” for first date include:
- Don't put too much cologne unless you smell like a skunk!
- Always take a shower before going on a date.
- Don't have bad breath. Buy some chewing gum and put them in your pocket. You’ll never know when you need them. Especially when kissing on your first date.
WARNING: Do not kiss on your first date with a Chinese girl!
